Kayaking can be magical. Some of us need support. Volunteers with the Blackstone Heritage Corridor helped me in and back out of the boat. The paddling? That was up to me.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Click to learn more.
Here are some lessons I’ve learned about asking for help/support, from years of practice. The recording I made here was first shared through Michael Whitehouse’sGrateful Growth Summit. Many thanks to Michael for spurring me to meet his challenge of creating a fifteen minute talk for this event. The recording has more “what to do” suggestions than are listed here.
“Why Learning to ask for help is a good thing…for your business”:
I’ve started writing a book on why learning to ask for help is a good thing… for your business, for your personal life, and for those you enlist to help. This post is not comprehensive. Below are a few tips that I will expand on as the manuscript is developed. Let me know if you have questions or comments, please!
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
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It began as a simple lunch stop on our way from New England to Tennessee to see grandboys. Just off I-81 in Raphine, Virginia, the sign on the highway said McCormick Farm. We were curious. So we turned off at the exit.
Fall colors along the paved Marsh Trail, Salisbury, MA
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Salisbury, Massachusetts offers a wonderful rail trail network that provides marsh views, woodland paths and an overlook of the Merrimack River. Our visit was on a perfect fall day, with little if any wind. Bright autumn colors glowed in the sunshine. We saw few other people using the trail, which surprised us, since we were there on a weekend.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
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Our calendar to-do list is pretty big this fall. Before we tend to those tasks, and it gets too cold (for us) to bicycle in New England, we decided to take a break. Vermont is a New England state we have spent little time in. This was our chance to explore the Lamoille Valley Rail trail, near Stowe, Vermont.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Click to learn more.
Something interesting can happen when we turn up old earth in a garden. Plowing a familiar furrow may lead us to encounter, when we’re lucky, something different, perhaps a pretty fragment of an old china plate or glass bottle.
We may worry, when writing, that we are covering old ground. Or, as teachers sharing the same lesson with different classes, we review the same concepts, over and over! However, the repetition itself may, without our realizing it, bring change into our lives. And that can make all the difference.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
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When traveling, we often find lunch spots along the way by looking at the map for what might be nearby. If we see a river, we then search for open space to get a water view to take a break from driving. On our way south from New England to see grandboys in Tennessee, we must cross the Hudson river.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
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The Elk River rail trail was not on our radar until we stopped for the night at a Harvest Hosts camping spot near Beckley, West Virginia. We were on our way home to Massachusetts after visiting grandboys in Tennessee. As we sat around the campfire next to our host’s riverside spot, they mentioned a rail trail alongside the Elk River that they had heard about.
We called this boat henge, along the Missouri River–made me smile
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So, how do you start? Write something. Toss in some photos. Dip your toes into the blogging world. Find a place to put your writing up on the internet. Tell your friends. Blogs are meant to be shared, not kept secret.
Marjorie Turner Hollman helps authors self-publish their nonfiction books. She is also a disability advocate, sharing information about Easy Walks (not too many roots or rocks, relatively level with firm footing, and something of interest along the way) in open space.Learn more.
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You know it’s summer when you have an errand and immediately think, “Where can we ride our bike near where we’ll be anyway?” The border of Massachusetts and New Hampshire is a pretty good distance from our home, (Rhode Island is a stone’s throw from my house), but we were on a mission, and Pepperell was on our calendar. The day was not too hot (for me) and our adaptive tandem bicycle was ready to roll. And so we did!
A giant bicycle sculpture next to the trail
The first sight that greeted us as we arrived at the small town park in Winchendon was the giant bicycle next to the parking area. What a friendly invitation for bicyclists to join others enjoying the trail.
Access to downtown WinchendonWater views along the trail
It had been ten years since we last visited this trail. The water views are the same, but the paved path has been vastly improved. For a holiday weekend, the North Central Parkway was not crowded. Several families with children passed us along the six miles or so we pedaled on the paved path. A few others on wheels passed us, including a child riding her small tricycle. Slowing down and being willing to stop when little ones stray over the line is part of the territory. Offering a smile to parents who are getting their kids out makes life better for all of us.
It takes practice to understand how to navigate rail trails that are shared by walkers, bicyclists, and dog walkers. Staying to one side or the other can be confusing. Chatting with friends can distract us from looking out for others on the trail. And some who (likely) walk ever day appear to use headphones to keep them entertained.
Safety tip—doing anything that compromises your ability to hear while on a rail trail is dangerous. You will not be able to hear when people pass by you from behind. Perhaps more concerning, if someone might wish you harm, you could be caught unawares. Be selfish—take care of yourself and others by using all your senses!
OK, end of public service announcement.
I so enjoyed the multiple spots along this trail with water views. Small streams cross underneath the path. Wetlands with little pools of water are right off the trail. Reminders remain of important infrastructure trains used along this right of way in days gone by. Look for old bridge abutments next to or underneath where new bridges now allow us to cross streams along the way.
Old mill buidlingsAccess to the pond
Some mill buildings remain next to Whitney Pond, from a time when Winchendon was one of many New England towns with local industry that used water power to run their machinery. A bridge spanning a portion of the pond allows for access from the downtown to the rest of the trail.
We found multiple benches along the way, many with nice water views. We stopped at one spot for a snack. The chocolate in our trail mix had not melted, thanks to the ice I carry to help keep me cool. Once I got the nuts and chocolate in my hand, however, I was reminded why the company that makes M&Ms claims, “melts in your mouth, not in your hands.” My hands would have been less messy if our trail mix had had M&Ms as one of the ingredients. Live and learn? Maybe.
Small tunnel along the wayTrail access
We returned the next weekend to check out the Gardner section of the North-central pathway. We parked on Commercial Drive, in Gardner, just off Rt. 140. The paved rail trail goes right underneath the road and continues both directions. Additional parking is available just off Old Gardner Road, right off Rt. 140.
The old Gardner Road parking marks the northern end of the developed section of the Gardner trail. By continuing past the parking on Old Gardner Road, you will soon intersect with Spring St., Rt. 12. Just a short distance southeast on Rt. 12 is North Ashburnham Rd. Turn left and travel a quarter mile to the Winchendon portion of the trail. Riding on Old Gardner, Rt. 12 and North Ashburnham Road allows you to avoid the undeveloped portion of the trail between Gardner and Winchendon. That unimproved section is damp, with lots of roots, some rather large rocks, and has evidence of ATV usage. We pedaled along it for a short distance till we encountered a tree trunk too large for us to remove.
We headed back south on the Gardner section, crossing several pretty streams along the way. When the trail intersected with Rt. 140, we could see that it continued beyond the highway. There is no cross walk nor signals to warn traffic of potential travelers crossing the road. The speed of oncoming traffic from both directions persuaded us to turn around.
Rt. 140 is a formidable barrier between two sections of the Gardner part of trail
While some of the trail hugs busy Rt. 140 (and thus is pretty noisy), much of what we rode on during our second visit offered quiet, and water views. Other than at mid-day, much of this trail, both in Winchendon and Gardner, has welcome shade in the summer. Summer bike rides provide plenty to love, but I for one am looking forward to foliage season and cooler weather. Till next time, happy trails!
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